Dear Bubba,
I’m becoming more and more aware that your little kidhood is rapidly coming to a close. The early morning snuggles are less frequent, you don’t automatically reach for my hand when we go for a walk, and you will totally ditch my ass to hang out with your friends. I had deluded myself into thinking I had until at least 10 before that stuff kicked in, but you’re an overachiever I suppose.
But then it occurs to me: you don’t want to laze around in bed because you wake up ready to greet the day and don’t want to miss a thing. It’s hard to hold someone’s hand when you are trying to branch out and explore. You make friends and connect with others so easily and that is a gift, kid.
And how can I be sad about that? OK, I get a little sad about it. But it would also be really weird and Buster Bluth-y if you were 22 and clinging to me. We would rock some sick Motherboy costumes though.
You are easily one of the funniest people I’ve met and I love watching you make up silly games to make people laugh. The simple joy of a good joke that involves the word “balls” isn’t lost on you; that should probably go on the DeFazio family crest. You’re honest to the point of being blunt (What do you mean my little black dress was “boring?” Who the hell died and made you Joan Rivers?) but have an incredible capacity for kindness when you sense someone needs that. Basically: qualities I appreciate in a friend. I’m so lucky you’re my family.
You have completed our family in ways we couldn’t have imagined 8 years and 1 day ago. I love you so very much and wish you a wonderful year!
Happy Birthday, Buddy.
Love always,
Sissy